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Post by The Tincat on Nov 8, 2013 14:51:44 GMT -8
Off Topic
Anyone watch the Kardashians ?
My heart breaks for Khloe and Lamar
I have been married for 40 years to someone with an addictive personality
the girl looks lost.
Am I the only one who thinks she is lost ?
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Post by The Tincat on Nov 11, 2013 7:55:28 GMT -8
Watched again last night.
Hope she has told her family.
And to Khloe
Best is to stop covering.
Let him fall.
Tell him you love him but stop making excuses .
Only he can face his own demons There his.
I speak from a place of knowing
Any other comments of people who have been through this with an addictive person /
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Post by crazysue on Nov 12, 2013 2:54:05 GMT -8
sorry don't watch it. can help
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Post by aztec53 on Nov 12, 2013 7:19:47 GMT -8
I don't watch it ... so don't know ... its too bad from what I have seen in previews they do not appear to be really a family family if that makes sense ... seems the kids have been mostly on their own an have had to do the best they know how too ?? but I could be wrong ... like I said I don't watch it .. just see the commercial previews for it ........
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Post by The Tincat on Nov 13, 2013 7:13:12 GMT -8
Yup there sort of a family with big problems.
Shame all that money and still have all the same problems with drugs and depression as the rest of the world.
money does not buy happiness.
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Post by aztec53 on Nov 14, 2013 2:08:55 GMT -8
it is very sad for just regular peons to go thru the crap but to see rich people .. dang .. an you would think most would know better. they have seen sooo many die of over doses an such .. dang .. just soooo sad to me. that is like that ?? ciely?? whatever her name is .. dad is that singer an she recently did a performance an she just came across as a very *friendly* person to me. an then almost nude also .. looked like she was attempting to mimic Madonna ... sad .. very sad .. I know they say sex sales but dang to flaunt it like that ... Miley Cyrus .. I think is her name. I had seen it on the news as to how the performance went an all I can say is very *friendly* person .. an that to me is being nice about it ... very sad .. very sad ...
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Post by The Tincat on Nov 14, 2013 9:52:08 GMT -8
my hubby has manic depression I think they call it bipolar now.
So it took many years to learn to deal with his moods.
But he was a product of his abusive childhood..
He was a drunk for 30 years of our marriage and I'm talking 24 drinks a day or better.
Then one day he woke up and thought about people around him and what he was doing.
I don't care what your past is , it's not you .
Until you as a addict learn that you will not get better.
Same with depression.
You are your own person .no one can help you .
The drugs may help for awhile but it is still up to you to fix and let go of the past.
I wake up everyday no matter what and choose to be happy.
Happy I am alive Period all the other is BS.
You don't need money , fine clothes , big house or fancy food .
Family , love and a choice to be !
So there's my soap box for the day.
Now i Am off to go try to get to the bathroom in time.
Hugs Brooke
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Post by aztec53 on Nov 19, 2013 4:54:35 GMT -8
Man you nailed that one on the head for sure .. yep. I grew up in a abusive home. My "MOM" was abusive both mentally and phycially. No matter what I did I was wrong period. Had no self esteem, had not faith in anything I thought I might try. No belieth? in me period!! I was like 30 yrs old when it dawned on me that I was not fat - ugly- or stupid!! And I learned there are other ways of correcting children than beating them. Many kinds of corrections with out a belt - hanger (wire) - shoe - hairbrush - tree limb - etc .. oh believe me she used whatever was handy ... yep she did. At 30, I started believing I was homely at least but not ugly .. at 30 I learned that I for sure could cook I learned that there was more to life than cleaning house as if it was spring all the time. Yep your weekly cleaning was SPRING CLEANING ... And at about the age of hmmm 35 ?? I learned that I could build a computer fully build one from scratch ... I was 24 when I learned that I could learn to crochet. And that my sewing was good. And super thanks to my husband BILL I began to have faith in what I could do, and what I was capable of doing. Cause he always said " how do you know you do not like something if you haven't tried it  " so very true so very true. And that is when I really started learning many crafts, and just living for ME, not what others thought I should or should not be... and now I am off also ... lolol gots to get somethings done while I am sorta pain free .. lol seeeeeee yaaaaaaaaa have a super day !!!! |
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" so very true so very true. And that is when I really started learning many crafts, and just living for ME, not what others thought I should or should not be...